In a candid discussion on entrepreneurship, the speakers, including the host of "the game" podcast and their guest, delve into the raw realities of building a business. They emphasize that the uncertainty of success is what makes entrepreneurship worthwhile, advocating for a relentless work ethic and the willingness to embrace the long haul over immediate rewards. The host, who is also the founder of acquisition.com, shares personal insights on the importance of prioritizing and mastering a few skills due to the finite nature of time. They argue against the culture of instant gratification, highlighting the value of building a solid foundation and reputation over time. The conversation also touches on the psychological aspects of entrepreneurship, such as dealing with envy and hate, and the importance of surrounding oneself with genuine supporters. The speakers conclude by discussing the power of providing value without expectation and the transformative impact of internalizing and acting on one's own advice.
"The fact that you don't know if it's going to work is exactly what makes it worth doing. It's why entrepreneurship isn't for the faint of heart. You have to embrace uncertainty."
This quote emphasizes that the unpredictable nature of entrepreneurship is what makes it challenging and worthwhile. The speaker suggests that embracing this uncertainty is essential for any entrepreneur.
"I always wish Bezos, Musk, and Buffett had documented their journey, so I'm doing it for the rest of us."
The speaker expresses a wish that influential entrepreneurs had shared their experiences in a documented form and declares an intention to provide this type of insight for the benefit of others.
"You can beat 99% of people simply by continuing to work without needing your immediate reward."
This quote suggests that the ability to work consistently without the need for immediate gratification is a significant competitive advantage.
"But that's what hard feels like. The other great reason for working harder is that the harder you work, the more you realize what you used to think was hard."
The speaker reflects on the nature of hard work and how one's understanding of it changes with experience, indicating that pushing past previous limits reveals greater potential.
"The most dangerous money making combo in the world, it's work ethic and time."
This quote highlights that the combination of a strong work ethic and the passage of time can lead to significant financial success.
"I think one of my favorite parables about work is that there was an art class. They split the class into two groups..."
This anecdote illustrates the speaker's point about the value of producing a large volume of work, as it can lead to better quality through practice and iteration.
"When you start working for yourself, you're not getting paid to be there. You're only getting paid on what you do."
The speaker contrasts the experience of traditional employment with entrepreneurship, emphasizing the direct link between work and financial reward in the latter.
"Sitting in uncertainty is the feeling of entrepreneurship. You're not doing it wrong. Like, that's what it feels like."
This quote reassures aspiring entrepreneurs that the difficulties they face are normal and part of the entrepreneurial experience.
"From a brand foundation perspective, it's, how can I build a reputation over a long period of time..."
This quote discusses the importance of building a long-term reputation rather than seeking immediate transactional success, highlighting the time and effort required to establish a strong brand.
"The reason I like service businesses for people who are starting out is that you don't have to do either of those things. But if you had one or two or both of those things, then you can create something bigger, faster on a longer time horizon."
The quote explains why service businesses are recommended for beginners, as they require less foundational work, but also acknowledges that having leverage or a foundation can lead to greater success over time.
"Your measuring stick has to change when you get into a different game. Sometimes the fastest way to get to a million dollars a year isn't the fastest way to get to $10 million a year."
This quote emphasizes the need for entrepreneurs to adjust their expectations and metrics for success when transitioning from traditional employment to entrepreneurship.
"What makes entrepreneurship isn't the work itself. It's actually just not knowing if the work will work."
The speaker is highlighting the essence of entrepreneurship, which lies in the uncertainty of outcomes despite the effort invested.
"I consider skills income insurance. You just know that you will be able to make money."
The speaker is suggesting that developing skills is a way to ensure one's ability to make money, likening it to an insurance policy against income loss.
"What you really need is work that you don't need a weekend from. And instead of thinking about work life balances, like a seven day work week, think about work life balances on a seven year time horizon."
This quote challenges the conventional view of work-life balance and weekends, promoting the idea of finding fulfilling work that aligns with a longer-term vision of life.
"You'd be amazed at how much faster you can get to your goals when you don't go back. It's 104 days a year."
The speaker is highlighting the potential gains in productivity and progress towards goals by utilizing weekends effectively, instead of adhering to the norm of taking them off.
"Success is the only revenge. As you expand, they shrink into irrelevance. As you get louder, no one can hear them."
This quote encapsulates the idea that personal success is the most effective way to overshadow critics and competitors, rendering their opinions insignificant.
The biggest mistake of my career I made because of a competitor. That mistake cost me somewhere in the neighborhood of $25 million, actual money.
The speaker highlights the severe consequences of allowing competition to dictate one's actions, emphasizing the importance of maintaining focus on one's own goals.
Winners focus on winning. Losers focus on winners.
This quote underscores the necessity of concentrating on personal success rather than being preoccupied with competitors.
If you feel like you are the output of your life, at the end of your life, who you are is the thing that is the thing that you became, then competition is good for you.
The speaker reflects on the positive aspects of competition in personal growth and the cultivation of resilience.
My two simple lenses for friendship. Number one, do they genuinely root for you when you win? Number two, do they make you better?
The speaker outlines two critical criteria for identifying true friends, emphasizing the importance of support and personal improvement.
The rare people in your life who root for you to hit your goals are more valuable than the goals themselves.
This quote highlights the profound value of having supportive individuals in one's life, suggesting that their support is more significant than achieving the goals themselves.
Unless someone is ahead of you, take their hate as envy and then disregard.
The speaker advises disregarding negative feedback from those who are not in a position to provide constructive criticism, seeing it as envy instead.
I see hate as feedback. Nothing more, nothing less.
This quote reflects the speaker's perspective on negative criticism, considering it merely as data to be analyzed rather than an emotional burden.
Sadness comes from a lack of options, which is why it feels like hopelessness. Anxiety comes from many options, but a lack of priorities, which is why it feels like paralysis.
The speaker provides insight into the emotional states of sadness and anxiety, attributing them to the availability of options and the clarity of priorities.
Looking everywhere but moving nowhere solves sadness with knowledge and anxiety with a decision.
This quote suggests practical solutions to overcome emotional challenges by acquiring knowledge and making decisive choices.
"With sadness, you don't know to do because you don't know anything to do with anxiety, you don't know which to do. Disappointment is when an expectation was unmet."
This quote explains the different emotional reactions to situations based on our understanding and expectations. Sadness stems from not knowing what to do due to a lack of options, while anxiety comes from having too many options. Disappointment results from expectations not being met.
"The stoic frame for that is that you imagine all the things that could have gone worse. I mean, there's a lot of frames, but that's one of them."
This quote highlights a stoic approach to disappointment, which involves considering worse possible scenarios to mitigate the impact of the current disappointment.
"You can shoot big as long as you don't make missing mean that you suck."
This quote emphasizes the importance of aiming for high goals without attaching one's self-worth to the outcome. It suggests that failure should not be equated with personal inadequacy.
"And me being able to talk to my future version of myself in a dialogue format allows me to get grace from a future version of self and also get approval from a future version of self."
This quote describes a reflective practice where one engages in an internal dialogue with a future version of oneself to gain perspective and approval for current actions.
"No one's afraid of failing. They're afraid of what other people will think of them when they fail."
This quote suggests that the fear of failure is less about the failure itself and more about the social perception and judgment from others.
"And so I have made seven levels of how I weigh advice that have served me well..."
This quote outlines a systematic approach to evaluating advice, ranging from least to most reliable sources based on the advisor's experience and success in helping others achieve similar goals.
"But what happens is a lot of people will shortchange that. And so I get dms every day of people saying, hey, I want to give you value in exchange for. And it's just, stop, don't tell me what value you want to give me and what you want to trade that value for."
This quote discourages the practice of offering value with immediate expectations of return. Instead, it advocates for genuinely providing value to others, which can lead to opportunities organically.