12 Raw Truths About Gaining Power & Respect - Robert Greene (4K)

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Robert Greene and Chris Williamson discuss the evolution of Greene's career, from his early struggles to the success of "The 48 Laws of Power," and the importance of adapting to changing circumstances. They delve into the problems with modern philosophy, emphasizing the need for practical wisdom and relevance to daily life. Greene highlights the significance of acquiring diverse skills, the power of reputation, and the necessity of balancing presence and absence. They also explore the challenges of masculinity in contemporary society and the value of embracing one's unique traits. Greene's upcoming book on the sublime promises to challenge conventional perspectives and evoke a sense of awe and dread.

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Introduction and Background

  • Robert Green and Chris Williamson discuss their previous interactions and the growth of the podcast.
  • Robert Green expresses gratitude for the special edition of his book "48 Laws of Power."

"The show is 400 times bigger than it was when you first came on."

  • Acknowledging the growth of the podcast and the increased audience.

"I also wanted to say thank you for sending me the special edition of 48 Laws of Power."

  • Expressing gratitude for the special edition book, highlighting its unique design features.

The Unique Design of the Book

  • Discussion about the design of the special edition of "48 Laws of Power."
  • The design includes gold embossing and images that appear when the pages are splayed.

"It's leatherbound, gold emboss 48 on the front, and then as you look at the side, it's gold."

  • Describing the luxurious design elements of the book.

"As you splay the pages out in one direction, it's your face; as you splay the pages out in the other, it's that famous portrait of Machiavelli."

  • Highlighting the innovative design that incorporates images.

The Role of Joost Elffers

  • Joost Elffers is credited with the design of the book.
  • Elffers played a significant role in Robert Green's career.

"He's a brilliant designer; he consulted me on it, but he's really the genius behind that."

  • Acknowledging Joost Elffers' contribution to the book's design.

"If it weren't for him, I wouldn't be here. I'd either be dead or I'd still be working in Hollywood and probably be dead anyway."

  • Emphasizing the importance of Joost Elffers in Robert Green's career.

Modern Philosophy and Its Problems

  • Discussion about the issues with modern philosophy.
  • The disconnect between philosophy and practical life.

"Years ago, we kind of somewhere went off on a wrong path. We lost faith in just our thinking, in our brains, in our minds."

  • Highlighting the perceived decline in the relevance of modern philosophy.

"For me, philosophy has to have a direct connection to my life, to living, to my soul, to my day-to-day affairs."

  • Emphasizing the need for philosophy to be practical and relevant to daily life.

Zen Meditation and Philosophy

  • Robert Green's interest in Zen meditation and philosophy.
  • Zen philosophy as a practical and realistic approach to life.

"Zen can be described as the ultimate realistic philosophy. It's taking you back to what is truly real."

  • Describing Zen philosophy as grounded in reality and practical life.

"They want you to be able to take their philosophy and live in your day-to-day life and not have a separation between the two."

  • Emphasizing the integration of Zen philosophy into everyday life.

Critique of Contemporary Philosophers

  • Discussion about contemporary philosophers and their relevance.
  • Mention of Thomas Nagel and his essay "What is it like to be a bat?"

"He's trying to essentially say we can't know because that kind of consciousness is so different from ours."

  • Summarizing Nagel's argument about the limits of understanding other forms of consciousness.

"Academia is all about having some novel stance, usually from some cultural perspective, whereas the truth is more rounded."

  • Critiquing the tendency in academia to adopt novel stances rather than seeking a more comprehensive understanding.

The Importance of Knowledge and Skills

  • Emphasis on acquiring knowledge and skills as a foundation for success.
  • Personal anecdotes from Robert Green's career journey.

"Eventually, the time that was not spent on learning skills will catch up to you, and the fall will be painful."

  • Highlighting the long-term consequences of not acquiring skills.

"I had spent 18 years or so acquiring high levels of skill in writing."

  • Describing the long process of skill acquisition and its eventual payoff.

The Role of Intuition and Fate

  • Discussion about the role of intuition and a sense of fate in guiding one's career.
  • The idea that certain paths and decisions are influenced by an underlying sense of purpose.

"Sometimes you don't realize it, but your body and your brain have a sense of even the future and where you're headed."

  • Emphasizing the subconscious guidance towards one's destiny.

"It's not all just chaos and random. There is something in you that is guiding you towards certain things."

  • Asserting that there is an underlying order and purpose in one's life journey.

The Dangers of Cynicism and Stupidity

  • Critique of cynicism and the dangers of being overly certain about one's beliefs.
  • The importance of maintaining a sense of wonder and openness.

"More harm is caused in this world by stupid, incompetent people than by evil people."

  • Highlighting the greater danger posed by incompetence compared to malice.

"Cynicism reduces everything to this one level. It has nothing to do with reality because reality is much richer and weirder and more mysterious than that."

  • Critiquing cynicism for oversimplifying and distorting the complexity of reality.

Reputation and Power

  • The importance of reputation in gaining and maintaining power.
  • The psychological aspects of power dynamics.

"So much depends on reputation. Reputation is the cornerstone of power."

  • Emphasizing the critical role of reputation in power dynamics.

"Through reputation alone, you can intimidate and win. Once it slips, however, you are vulnerable and will be attacked on all sides."

  • Highlighting the fragility and importance of maintaining a strong reputation.

Power and Reputation

  • Reputation as Power: The idea that reputation can precede and influence perceptions, creating an additional form of power.
  • Psychological Nature of Power: Power dynamics are rooted in psychology rather than measurable metrics.
  • Playing the Game: Rising to positions of power involves mastering psychological tactics and optics.

"My reputation now kind of put people a little bit on their heels... it's an extra form of power."

  • Reputation can create an aura that influences others' perceptions and behaviors.

"The CEO of a company... it's about psychology... people rise to positions of power because they know how to play the game."

  • Power is achieved through psychological manipulation and understanding social dynamics.

"You play by mastering these little psychological bits... one of them is your reputation."

  • Mastery of psychological tactics, including reputation management, is crucial for success.

Reputation and Credibility

  • Brand Reputation: The reputation of a brand can drive success, similar to individual reputation.
  • Consistency in Reputation: Maintaining a consistent reputation is crucial for credibility.
  • The Impact of Social Media: Actions and statements on social media can significantly impact one's reputation.

"If your company is known for always putting on good parties, then you get to benefit from that."

  • A positive brand reputation attracts more customers and enhances success.

"Credibility is the one thing that you should never sell because you cannot buy it back."

  • Credibility is invaluable and irreplaceable; once lost, it cannot be regained.

"People post things on social media when they're young not realizing that 5 years later... it's going to ruin your reputation."

  • Social media actions can have long-term consequences on personal and professional reputation.

Consistency and Adaptation

  • Consistent Image: A consistent and coherent image is essential for maintaining a strong reputation.
  • Adapting Without Losing Core Identity: While adaptation is necessary, it should not compromise the core identity and values.

"If you're like all over the map... it looks weak... people won't like that."

  • Inconsistency in behavior or beliefs can weaken reputation and trust.

"You have to like it's like a brand... there's a certain kind of shape to it."

  • A strong reputation requires a stable and recognizable identity.

The Role of Social Media

  • Judgment and Exposure: Social media exposes individuals to constant judgment and requires careful management of one's image.
  • Historical Actions: Past actions, even from years ago, can resurface and affect current reputation.

"Everything you do is reflected through the social world... people are continually judging you."

  • Social media amplifies scrutiny and necessitates mindful behavior.

"A tweet from 2009... she's had to do this rving apology."

  • Historical social media posts can have lasting repercussions.

Reputation in Different Contexts

  • Corporate vs. Personal Reputation: The move to platforms like Spotify can enhance or detract from an individual's reputation depending on the platform's own reputation.
  • Political and Public Figures: Public figures often face challenges in maintaining a consistent and favorable reputation.

"With Joe's move to Spotify... it becomes multiplicative as opposed to sort of subtractive."

  • Aligning with a reputable platform can enhance one's own reputation.

"Political positions or have swayed With the Wind... they would give all of it back to regain their reputation."

  • Political figures often struggle with maintaining credibility amidst changing positions.

Embracing Uniqueness

  • Irreplaceability: Embracing what makes one unique is essential for standing out and achieving success.
  • Social Pressure vs. Individuality: Social pressure to conform can stifle individuality and creativity.

"If you're replaceable you will be replaced... the only defense... is to be irreplaceable."

  • Irreplaceability is a key defense against being outcompeted in a professional context.

"Knowing your uniqueness... knowing what makes you weird and What Makes You odd."

  • Understanding and embracing one's unique traits is crucial for personal and professional fulfillment.

The Value of Diversity

  • Cultural Contribution: Embracing individual uniqueness contributes to cultural diversity and vitality.
  • Historical Examples: Figures like Einstein and Da Vinci exemplify the power of embracing one's unique traits.

"Your mutation your difference you being Chris is for a purpose... contributing something new to the culture."

  • Individual uniqueness enriches cultural diversity and drives innovation.

"Look at all the powerful people in this world... they're one of a kind."

  • Successful individuals often stand out due to their unique traits and contributions.

Psychological Health and Authenticity

  • Psychological Benefits: Embracing one's true self is psychologically beneficial and leads to greater happiness.
  • Authenticity in Relationships: Genuine traits are often what others value most in relationships.

"If you lose that not only are you not going to be successful in life you will also Lose Yourself and you will be Mis you'll be unhappy."

  • Authenticity and embracing one's true self are key to personal happiness and success.

"That's why I love you... be very careful sort of labeling areas creating an unnecessary value judgment."

  • Authentic traits are often what make individuals valuable and loved in relationships.

The Role of Genetics and Early Influences

  • Innate Traits: Certain traits and inclinations are deeply embedded and often have genetic or early developmental origins.
  • Channeling Traits for Success: Understanding and channeling these traits can lead to personal and professional success.

"There is probably some genetic component in it... you can't control it it's who you are."

  • Innate traits often guide one's interests and career paths.

"The things that you're punished for when you're a child... you're often rewarded for if you can just find a way to alchemize them as an adult."

  • Traits that may be seen as negative in childhood can become strengths in adulthood when properly channeled.

Self-Awareness and Personal Growth

  • Knowing Oneself: Self-awareness is crucial for personal growth and navigating life's challenges.
  • Balancing Traits: Balancing and understanding one's traits can lead to a more fulfilling and successful life.

"Knowing what makes you different is kind of going to guide you past these dangerous moments in life."

  • Self-awareness helps navigate challenges and make informed decisions.

"Being aware of who you are... use it for power right and don't be so conflicted about it."

  • Embracing and using one's inherent traits can lead to empowerment and success.

Embracing Individuality

  • Embrace what makes you different and be comfortable with it, even if it feels uncomfortable at times.
  • Adolescence and early adulthood often involve conforming to societal norms, but one tends to revert to their true self.
  • Activities from childhood, like throwing a ball against a wall, often provide comfort and relief in adulthood.

"What makes you different and being comfortable with it... you keep coming back to being alone, you keep coming back to doing throwing the ball against the wall in some metaphoric way."

  • Emphasizes the importance of returning to one's core identity despite societal pressures.

"I get a tennis ball and throw it against the wall... I had the same thing but I, because I'm American, mine was baseball."

  • Highlights how childhood activities can carry into adulthood as a source of comfort.

Weirdness Role Models

  • A "weirdness role model" is someone who breaks societal norms and inspires others to embrace their uniqueness.
  • Seeing someone else embrace their quirks can encourage you to do the same.

"I came up with a name for that which is a weirdness role model... somebody who does a thing that sort of breaks the ceiling on what you thought was acceptable behavior."

  • Introduces the concept of "weirdness role models" who inspire others to embrace their quirks.

"He says, 'Oh, I grew up playing basketball. I'm happiest with a ball in my hand.'"

  • Illustrates how personal quirks can be a source of happiness and comfort.

The Importance of Pressure

  • Human creativity and problem-solving abilities developed under immense pressure.
  • Pressure and stress can be beneficial, driving focus and productivity.
  • Creating self-imposed deadlines can help maintain momentum and avoid procrastination.

"The human brain evolved under immense amounts of pressure... your brain needs pressure; it needs constant pressure and stress."

  • Explains how pressure is essential for human creativity and productivity.

"Create pressure for yourself is a good thing... I gave myself a deadline of finishing this chapter by July 31st."

  • Stresses the importance of self-imposed deadlines to maintain focus and productivity.

The Role of Public Commitment

  • Publicly committing to a goal can create external pressure, motivating you to achieve it.
  • Thomas Edison used public commitment to drive the invention of the incandescent light bulb.

"He gave an interview with a newspaper and he said, 'I've been working on creating the incandescent light bulb.'"

  • Shows how public commitment can create pressure to achieve ambitious goals.

"He created his own pressure by using the publicity angle... people are going to expect it."

  • Highlights the effectiveness of public commitment in driving achievement.

Learning from Failure

  • Failure can be a valuable learning experience, teaching resilience and adaptability.
  • Success at a young age can lead to complacency and lack of discipline.

"If that first album didn't do well and you were smart about it, it would have taught you a valuable lesson."

  • Emphasizes the importance of learning from failure rather than becoming complacent.

"Sometimes success when in your 20s is the worst thing that can happen to you because you have no discipline."

  • Warns against the dangers of early success leading to complacency.

The Curse of Early Success

  • Early success can create immense pressure to replicate it, often leading to anxiety and stress.
  • Maintaining a humble and grounded attitude is crucial to handling success effectively.

"It is a curse to have everything go right on your first attempt."

  • Highlights the challenges of dealing with early success.

"If I had been given the chance to write the 48 Laws of Power when I was in my 20s and I had success, it would have ruined me."

  • Personal reflection on how early success could have led to complacency and failure.

The Importance of Challenges

  • Taking on new challenges is essential for growth and maintaining motivation.
  • Challenges should be difficult but achievable to keep energy levels high.

"Each book that I do... is different from the other one."

  • Emphasizes the importance of taking on new challenges to maintain motivation.

"It's a challenge, and the challenge is good because it gets my energy levels going."

  • Highlights how challenges can boost energy and motivation.

The Role of Enemies and Opposition

  • Having opposition or enemies can push you to greater heights by providing a foil to your efforts.
  • Resistance and challenges from others can help you refine and improve your work.

"If everything is easy in life... you're just going to be mush; you're not going to amount to anything."

  • Stresses the importance of opposition in driving personal growth and achievement.

"Muhammad Ali said if I didn't have Joe Frasier around, I would not have become the great boxer that I am."

  • Illustrates how having a nemesis can push you to achieve greater heights.

Wisdom and Perspective

  • Maintaining perspective and humility is crucial, especially after achieving success.
  • Surrounding yourself with honest critics rather than sycophants can help you stay grounded.

"By Nature, we are always thinking that we're better than we are."

  • Emphasizes the importance of maintaining perspective and humility.

"You want them to say it's terrible; you have the worst idea."

  • Highlights the value of honest feedback over sycophantic praise.

Using Social Pressure

  • Social pressure can be a powerful motivator if channeled correctly.
  • Understanding your own insecurities and using them to drive forward can be beneficial.

"Being able to use the social mores to kind of pull you to where you want to be."

  • Discusses the importance of using social pressure to motivate oneself.

"My need to not look silly in front of other humans... means that by doing a podcast, I've never not shown up."

  • Personal reflection on how social pressure can drive consistency and commitment.

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Overcoming Challenges and Pressure

  • Robert Greene discusses the immense pressure he faced while writing a book with 50 Cent.
  • He compares the experience to being in a boxing ring with Joe Frasier, emphasizing the need to elevate his game.
  • The pressure of potential failure brought out the best in him and built his self-confidence.
  • Doubters and deadlines can either crush you or make you stronger, turning you into a better "fighter."

"It was like I was in a boxing ring with Joe Frasier. I had to raise my game."

  • Greene emphasizes the intensity of the challenge he faced.

"It was the first time in my writing career that I was facing failure, real failure."

  • This quote highlights the stakes involved in the project.

"Having that kind of pressure can crush you, but it can also make you a lot stronger."

  • Greene reflects on the dual nature of pressure and its potential positive effects.

The Dynamic of Absence and Presence

  • Greene explains the concept of using absence to increase respect and admiration.
  • The idea is to balance absence and presence to maintain interest and avoid being taken for granted.
  • He uses historical and modern examples, such as Napoleon and social media strategies, to illustrate this dynamic.

"If you are already established in a group, temporary withdrawal from it will make you more talked about, even more admired."

  • This quote outlines the basic principle of using absence to increase value.

"It's a dance between absence and presence. It's not like you disappear; you are a little bit less present."

  • Greene clarifies that it's about finding the right balance, not complete disappearance.

"If you inundate somebody, you don't give them room to fantasize, to think about you."

  • This quote explains the psychological impact of overexposure versus strategic absence.

The Psychology of Surprise and Expectations

  • Greene and the host discuss the importance of setting and breaking expectations to maintain interest and create a viral effect.
  • Examples include product branding strategies and historical figures like P.T. Barnum.
  • The concept is linked to the psychology of intermittent rewards, similar to how social media and gambling work.

"If everything is always the same, there's no surprise. Surprise gets attention."

  • Greene emphasizes the need for surprise to capture and maintain interest.

"You have to think about how people are going to respond. You have to understand the psychology involved."

  • This quote highlights the importance of psychological insight in strategic planning.

"If you break a convention before you've set a convention, it's just being sporadic."

  • The host explains the necessity of establishing a pattern before breaking it for effect.

Machiavelli and Adaptability

  • Greene discusses Machiavelli's idea that successful leaders must adapt to changing circumstances.
  • He emphasizes the importance of fluidity and the ability to shift strategies as needed.
  • This adaptability is contrasted with the rigid, one-dimensional approaches that often lead to failure.

"People rise to a position based on a certain quality, but a point is reached where the times change."

  • This quote encapsulates Machiavelli's idea of the need for adaptability.

"The perfect Prince would be someone who could continually adapt to circumstances."

  • Greene describes the ideal leader according to Machiavelli.

"Most of the people who fail in life have reached a level of power but can't go any further because they don't know how to adapt."

  • Greene links the concept to real-life consulting experiences.

The Virtue of Play

  • The host and Greene discuss the importance of reintroducing a sense of play in life.
  • They reference Johan Huizinga's book "Homo Ludens," which explores the history and psychology of play.
  • Play is seen as essential for psychological health and creativity.

"One of the greatest books ever written on the subject is 'Homo Ludens' by Johan Huizinga."

  • Greene recommends this book for understanding the role of play.

"Play is essential for psychological health and creativity."

  • This quote emphasizes the importance of play in human life.

Redefining Masculinity

  • Greene addresses the confusion young men face regarding masculinity in modern society.
  • He advocates for a redefinition of masculine virtues, emphasizing self-control, respect for women, and disciplined aggression.
  • Greene criticizes both toxic masculinity and the lack of positive masculine role models.

"The word masculine has now got this negative connotation around it, which is terrible."

  • Greene highlights the current societal view on masculinity.

"Respecting women is a sign of your strength, a sign of being secure in your masculinity."

  • This quote redefines respect for women as a masculine virtue.

"Self-control is a very masculine quality. It's how you use your aggression that can be bad."

  • Greene emphasizes the importance of self-control and disciplined aggression.

The Sublime and Its Impact

  • Greene discusses his upcoming book on the sublime, aiming to challenge readers' perceptions of the world.
  • The book will explore various aspects of life, including nature, art, history, and death, to evoke a sense of awe and terror.
  • Greene aims to alter readers' views and make them see the world in a more exciting and interesting way.

"I'm trying to make you realize that you're looking at the world in a very limited fashion."

  • Greene's goal is to expand readers' perspectives.

"The sublime is a combination of pain and pleasure, awe and terror."

  • This quote explains the dual nature of the sublime.

"It's going to be a very weird book, the weirdest book I've ever written."

  • Greene sets the expectation for the unique nature of his upcoming work.

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